[feature]: sweep: eliminate change address reuse about lnd HOT 2 OPEN

The trade off here is "address inflation" (which is why we cache the address in the first place). If each attempt got a new change address, then we'll quickly start to exceed the default "look ahead" distance for address rescans, which can make it difficult for users to recover from seed (need to set a distance of 10k, etc).

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Address inflation is nice to avoid, but note that the current code does not prevent it entirely. It can still happen when BumpFee is used, or if a counterparty's competing transaction confirms instead of ours.

We can limit the amount of address inflation while eliminating reuse by:

• ensuring that exclusive group inputs share the same change output
• caching change outputs for in flight transactions until we get a Failed or Swept event. If we get a Failed event, we can reuse that change output.

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