FFMPEG is crashing the intel NUC due to memory stranded at 100% about frigate HOT 1 CLOSED

VAINFO OUTPUT
Return Code: 0

Process Output:

vainfo: VA-API version: 1.17 (libva 2.10.0)
vainfo: Driver version: Intel i965 driver for Intel(R) Haswell Mobile - 2.4.1
vainfo: Supported profile and entrypoints
VAProfileMPEG2Simple : VAEntrypointVLD
VAProfileMPEG2Simple : VAEntrypointEncSlice
VAProfileMPEG2Main : VAEntrypointVLD
VAProfileMPEG2Main : VAEntrypointEncSlice
VAProfileH264ConstrainedBaseline: VAEntrypointVLD
VAProfileH264ConstrainedBaseline: VAEntrypointEncSlice
VAProfileH264Main : VAEntrypointVLD
VAProfileH264Main : VAEntrypointEncSlice
VAProfileH264High : VAEntrypointVLD
VAProfileH264High : VAEntrypointEncSlice
VAProfileH264MultiviewHigh : VAEntrypointVLD
VAProfileH264MultiviewHigh : VAEntrypointEncSlice
VAProfileH264StereoHigh : VAEntrypointVLD
VAProfileH264StereoHigh : VAEntrypointEncSlice
VAProfileVC1Simple : VAEntrypointVLD
VAProfileVC1Main : VAEntrypointVLD
VAProfileVC1Advanced : VAEntrypointVLD
VAProfileNone : VAEntrypointVideoProc
VAProfileJPEGBaseline : VAEntrypointVLD

FFPROBE OUTPUT
Stream 0:
Return Code: 0

Video:
Codec: H.264 / AVC / MPEG-4 AVC / MPEG-4 part 10
Resolution: 1920x1080
FPS: 30/1

Audio:
Codec: Opus (Opus Interactive Audio Codec)

{
  "hass-achtertuin": {
    "consumers": [
      {
        "medias": [
          "video, sendonly, ANY",
          "audio, sendonly, ANY"
        ],
        "remote_addr": "127.0.0.1:44644",
        "sdp": "v=0\r\no=- 1 1 IN IP4 0.0.0.0\r\ns=go2rtc/1.8.4\r\nc=IN IP4 0.0.0.0\r\nt=0 0\r\nm=video 0 RTP/AVP 96\r\na=rtpmap:96 H264/90000\r\na=fmtp:96 level-asymmetry-allowed=1;packetization-mode=1;profile-level-id=42e01f\r\na=control:trackID=0\r\nm=audio 0 RTP/AVP 97\r\na=rtpmap:97 OPUS/48000/2\r\na=fmtp:97 minptime=10;useinbandfec=1\r\na=control:trackID=1\r\n",
        "send": 10583401,
        "senders": [
          "96 H264, bytes=10164466, receivers=1",
          "97 OPUS/48000/2, bytes=235142, receivers=1"
        ],
        "type": "RTSP passive consumer",
        "url": "rtsp://127.0.0.1:8554/hass-achtertuin?video&audio",
        "user_agent": "FFmpeg Frigate/0.13.2-6476f8a"
      }
    ],
    "producers": [
      {
        "medias": [
          "video, recvonly, H264",
          "video, sendonly, H264",
          "audio, recvonly, OPUS/48000/2",
          "audio, sendonly, OPUS/48000/2"
        ],
        "receivers": [
          "97 H264, bytes=10164466, senders=1",
          "101 OPUS/48000/2, bytes=235142, senders=1"
        ],
        "recv": 10787326,
        "remote_addr": "udp4 host 108.177.126.127:19305",
        "type": "Hass active producer",
        "url": ""
      }
    ]
  }
}